Saddle Up for Growth

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Welcome to the Giddy Up segment.

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I'm thankful that you're here

and you're going to love this.

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You know, when you kind of produce

your own podcasts, things can happen.

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I already recorded this and I did it

in the barn and I ran in the house and

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I was going to set it up so that it

would come out tomorrow and The whole

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thing was recorded with no sound.

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So I almost didn't come back out and

do this, but I have to feed the horsey

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and the donkey and the chickens anyway.

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So here I am.

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And I think the reason that

I wanted to come out here is

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because I'm really excited about.

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where my business is going and

what I'm going to be offering.

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And so I do want to share that with you.

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Um, my website is under construction and

I will continue to serve you with doing

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divorce different, although I'm going

to be focusing more on saddle up live.

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I still will do divorce mediations

and that parenting co parenting

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course will be there along with.

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The DIY divorce course for Minnesota.

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So that's still a piece of the work that

I do, but I also have something set up

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so that if things get really busy and

people want to work with someone right

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away, I've got someone that I've trained

that I can slide those folks over to if

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necessary because there's a new part of

my business that I'm really excited about.

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And yeah, it has to do with life.

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And how things happen and how you

reexamine things sometimes when you go

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through something that's life changing.

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And I'm just thrilled to be beginning

to help people maybe take one last

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ditch effort in their marriage.

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It's so fun.

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I've always wanted to do it.

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I am a life coach.

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So not only am I an attorney, I

did get certified as a life coach.

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And the reason that I did that and

the reason that I love to learn and

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grow is just because it's how I am.

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But also it makes me a better mediator.

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It helps me help people

communicate better.

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And Such a huge part of

marriage is communication.

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And, you know, I think therapy can be a

piece of this and that's not my piece.

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I want to help couples move forward.

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Because I've had such amazing luck with

it in my own, I think it's 33 years of

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marriage and it's, we have an anniversary

coming up in a couple of months, no, next

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month or soon, even sooner than a month.

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So I have my experience and I'm not

saying the ride was always smooth.

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We have been through things and there

are amazing things that you can do to

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help yourself In your marriage too.

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So I want to make sure, because I think

one of the biggest things my clients come

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to me about is they kind of don't know

for sure if they're ready to get divorced.

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Whenever I ask them, yeah,

you know, I think so.

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So let's do one last ditch effort.

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And I really.

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If you, it's something you've been

thinking about for a long time, you

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might as well put your all into it.

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Even if it is just for a month, I've

got some tools that can help you.

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And you know what?

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It doesn't always take two people.

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This is really weird.

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It takes you changing yourself.

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And I have learned that when I have

changed how I respond and react

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and my kind of get control of my

emotions, it's helped my marriage.

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It's It's pretty amazing.

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And of course there's that God focus too.

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That's, that, um, is probably the most

important thing to me is surrendering

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to him, um, because he knows what's

best and that just kind of takes the

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worry piece out of it, but that's,

what's leading me to another aspect.

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It's kind of.

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where I'm going to be helping

individuals as well as couples.

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And, you know, I love ladies my age.

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I have been, I have been through so much.

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Um, and I know a lot of us have,

and I used to feel like, Oh, I

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want to help you suffer less.

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And I think I said that before.

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I want to help you suffer less.

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Well, that's true.

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But what I have learned

is in life, there's good.

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Things that happen and there's bad

things that happen and we can't you

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know, that's that's life I want to help

you do better through the hard things

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and I want to teach you what I did what

I didn't do Right, and so that can be

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you as an individual if you can work on

yourself individually sometimes that's

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gonna just blow through and help your

marriage or help you in a new life after

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your marriage or transitioning from kids

going off to college or transitioning

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into starting a new business.

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I mean, I really didn't get into this

business really powerfully until I

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think I was 49 or 50, which is pretty

cool and fun and you can do it and life

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is so good and we just want to suck

all that joy and goodness out of it.

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So that's what I'm doing that.

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That's where my website, if you go look

at it now, you'll see that it's under

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construction, but I have all kinds of

new freebies on quizzes on your mindset

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and um, tools to transform your marriage.

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I've got a new online course that

I'm going to keep them really,

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um, reasonably priced so that you

can learn what I have learned.

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I've been coached by the best and

it's not just from one person.

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It's me putting together

everything that I have learned.

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into a process that has changed my life.

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And so that's a new online course that

isn't quite done yet, but it almost is.

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And it's not anything super in depth

that doesn't take a lot of time.

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It's your first step in this journey

with me to delving in to having a

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better life, to feeling our feelings

and learning how to navigate.

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the good times and the times that

are a little bit more difficult.

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I just want to help you on this journey

and I'm so thankful for all of you.

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Please hit subscribe to this podcast.

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I want to be here for you.

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I want you to reach out.

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I want you to.

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Come on my podcast.

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If you have an amazing story, I want you

to share what you want to know about.

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I got some great things

coming, um, in the future too.

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I just wanted to get on here quick

and share this with you because I just

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feel so blessed and I'm so grateful.

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So you just, I'll take good

care and I'll see you next week.